8 Tips for Moving to Houston with Kids 07/13/2018 By Julie DeLong, A-1 Freeman Moving Group It is super fun to have a new location to live. Especially if the move is better than your present residence. But children may not view things in the same light, particularly if they have close buddies and/or family where they live currently. The concept of moving to a new school and away from established relationships can cause a lot of apprehension in children. While it may be rough for children to move away from everyday folks, places, and things, there are things you can do to help with the transition to Houston. Honest Communication Be sure they know about each point along the process. Children must feel free to express their fears as well as asking questions so be ready to provide info and answer any questions they may have. While some of their opinions and concerns may be negative, be there for them with compassion and positive answers. Take care not to invalidate their concerns but, instead, acknowledge their concerns and find ways that you can work together to reduce them. Introduce Them to Their New Home in Houston When possible, let them visit the new community and even to the new house. Let them get a feel for where they'll be moving to. If it's not possible to take them to tour the new home and area, take pictures or videos so they'll have an inkling of what the new abode will be like. Be sure to call attention to all of the beneficial features of the move (larger rooms, huge yard, etc.). Take them for a Tour of the School It may not be practicle to do a school tour on site, but nearly all schools in America have a website. Go to the local school board's website and you will likely find information about your child(ren's) new school(s). Show them the wide selections of school organizations and activities that they can participate in. School can be a big origin of stress for children and also an impactful part of their lives, so it is important that they are ready before they begin a new school. If you are capable of taking them on an actual tour of the new school, be make to introduce them to key players like the principals and guidance counselors. Involve Them in Packing There are a lot of age-appropriate methods that kids can be involved in the job of packing up. Have them help you box up their personal things in moving boxes and let them label the boxes of their things. (An added benefit is they can sort through their belongings and give away or discard items that they no longer want.) Stick with Routines Moving to Houston can be a crazy and tiring occasion for parents but don't let this deter you from staying with the same familiar schedules the kids are used to. Children require predictability to feel safe and moving time is one of those times when it's even more necessary. Since they're already going through a time of uncertainty by moving to a new place, it's very crucial to keep as many things familiar as possible. Decorate Their Rooms First Kids need structure and familiarity so it's imperative that their new rooms be as familiar to them as possible. By getting their new bedrooms furnished and decorated first, you establish them as valued parts of a new life. Keeping them involved in the process fortifies this need and makes them feel cared about and “at home”. Investigate the New Neighborhood Help your children in getting to know the new area, landmarks, and neighbors. Encourage them to make new friends and learn the layout of the new area so they do not feel quite so disoriented. Avoid Stress When parents stress, kids stress. That is why it's a good idea to utilize everything you possibly can to be sure you don't get stressed out, yourself. By arranging for a professional moving company to assist you in your household move, you remove lots of the stress from your back so you can concentrate more on the vital stuff. The ultimate goal when moving with children is to be sure they are feeling safe and secure. If you seize every opportunity to help them see the positive side of the move and get excited about it, your chances of making them feel loved are magnified and they will be much happier embracing your new home in Houston.